[Anonymous]

How do you get over someone when its been 7 months already.
Ill give you some history first. My ex and I were dating for about 3 years, then we broke it off. Not due to fighting or the normal causes, it was because there was too much happening in both of our lives, and I was ready for the next step and he wasn’t. To this day, we talk seldomly over msn, just to say hi. I haven’t seen him in 7 months except for today. I work at the airport, and I thought I would never see him there, but today I did. I didn’t talk to him, but I saw him from a distance, and i am positive he saw me too. When I saw him, I got all panicky, and had a hard time breathing, almost like I was have a anxiety attack. And all today I couldn’t stop thinking about him. Before today, I thought of him and knew that I would eventually get over him, and it was less everyday of thinking of him. But now I feel alone, and I miss him. Is there any way I can get over him easily? I tried the ‘hobbies’ way, but it interferes with my work schedule, and I cant go out much with my buddies because I work so much. I know it is not easy to get over someone quick, but there must be a way. And the other hard part about this is, normally I am alright with getting over my ex’s, but not this guy. And I have dated 2 other people in these past 7 months, and I still cannot get him out of my head. Does that mean something?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s a lot easier to get over someone with whom you [i]fought[/i] at your break up! Ironically when you have a peaceful break up that is mature and well thought out, getting over your ex can be a lot harder because you have fond memories of your time together. Those awful break up battles leave a bad taste in your mouth and no desire to see your ex. But you don’t have those.

Getting over an ex isn’t a trick. It takes time and it takes you keeping busy. I think you’re making excuses for not getting out there and meeting with other friends and socializing with other people. You have to make your social life a priority in order for it become one. It isn’t going to be easy, but it will work.

I hope that helps! Let me know how things go, and in the meantime, follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂

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