Hello ,
I am (17/f) and my boyfriend is 17 too . We r only in relationship for 4 months but I know him about 9 months . I was just friends with him first. Recently I found out something about him . I actually opened a different Fb account to know how he chat with other girls and whether he will tell the truth or not . But the way he chat really made me disappointed . First actually I chat like normal using that account , Then I asked him he is single or taken . He told that he is single . I continued to chat with him .
Then he asked me if I’m using WhatsApp or insta . I told him no . Then he asked how’s my parents ..how’s life going on and all that . He asked me the same question that I asked .. He asked if I’m single or taken ..I told him I’m taken and he asked who is the lucky guy . After that I asked “u single uh y Not see anyone?” He replied trying for all girls but doesn’t work out with him. Then he asked about my birthdate and hobbies . Then he asked “Ur classmate girls all good looking is it?”I asked him why . He told me “Coz u know i’m looking for my angels…Hahaha” he also asked if I have any interesting friends and If ur friends are single…Pls do tell me…(he said like that) . He sent me a quote about love and said he is not lucky to send to his gf..I told him don’t worry soon he will get one .he said thanks and asked me to help him . He asked again that is there any pretty girls in my school . That’s all we chat on that account
After that I used my WhatsApp to chat wit him (my real one) . .we had a small fight yesterday night and I put down the phone . So he was kinda mad at me Bcoz of that and when I approach him on chat .. He said he is busy and asked me to do my work . I said “What else u must be doing ” And I told him “U must be chatting with some other girls or insta-ing ” .he just laugh and said bye coz he gotta go out but still I continued chatting with him . Then he said one thing that” he talk to many girls as a Friend but he put me in a different that I’m his future Wife ” he also said that I shouldn’t think if chat with other girls doesn’t mean i don’t like you . He said Ur always mine . Then actually I told him about that Fb account . The account that I used to chat with him I told that is is my fren .. At first I said do u know her ? He said yeah she is my Fb fren .
I told him that I’m the one asked her to add you and he said yeah now I get you and he told me that do I believe that chatting . He said I am crazy Bcoz trusting that conversation . He said he talk like that just for fun ..And he said he just wanna test her find who is she actually . He told that this one I shouldn’t take serious and asked me to chill but I really cant . He said “u have never seen me chatting with one of my Friend ” I know her and her name is deva. He said if I know means I will get heart Attack . He told me that he chat to girls like that and he said if I don’t like that way he will stop and he also said that I am always his Wife . He said “sorry I never expect this will hurt you” .
But the thing is that I still don’t know how to believe what he said is true 🙁 … Really it hurted me a lot ..I took it serious but I don’t think he is serious when talking about this … He asked me decide whether I want him or not .. But I can’t forget him easily just like that ..:( I don’t know I should walk away or trust him .
