[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been off and on for about 6 months. When we break up he’s always the one to beg his way back into my life and i’m never strong enough to say no. We argue often and his quick temper is usually the reason. We’ve gotten used to talking everyday, but right before new years eve he didn’t text me for five days in a row. I was worried, but i assumed he was busy and left him alone. When i started to get really worried i asked him “Is there a reason we don’t talk anymore?” and he said “No, i’ve just been really sick and haven’t really talked to anyone” Since it’s hard for us to see each other and i couldn’t look him in the eye when he said it I just had to believe him.
We barely talk anymore and when we do the conversations are short and he acts as if im annoying or bothering him. I’m trying not to be the clingy girl that every guy hates but he needs to realize that if he doesn’t treat me like his girlfriend… I won’t be. I’ve tried to work it out with him by asking what was wrong but he completely ignored me. I’d like to give him a chance to change his mind before I break up with him, how long should I give him? If you think i should initiate the apology how do i get around him ignoring me?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If a man wants to date you, he will. If he likes you, you’ll know it.

This guy ignores you; has a bad temper; and in six months the best your relationship has had is “off and on”. 🙁 This isn’t a good relationship for you. You’ve given it a shot, and it’s not working. Dating is a process where you get to decide if someone is right for you (and vice versa) or not. You mentioned that you don’t have the strength to stay broken up. Well, if you want to find Mr. Right (this guy is not him), then you have to be single. Mr. Right isn’t going to look for you if you’re in an off and on relationship with a guy who ignores you.

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