Clearly your boyfriend’s porn habit is too much for you and your relationship. If he’s joined an online dating and sex website after dating you for nine months and living with you for six, I think this is a clear sign that this relationship isn’t going to work. You are incompatible and his not talking to you after joining this dating and sex website should be the equivalent of a neon sign to you that it’s over.
Your questions are all about trying to make this work — but it’s over. I doubt that this came out of the blue. My guess is that he had what you refer to as “his situation” when you met, and he was looking for a place to live, which you provided after three months of dating. This was a mistake on your part, and not very self-protective. Next time, get to know your boyfriend — whoever he may be — a lot better before moving in with him.
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