A friend introduced me to a woman because he kept teasing me that I’ve been single for a long time and asking why I still don’t have a girlfriend, so he said he would find one for me. Now I’ve been texting Vicki, she’s 27 years old and I’m 32. Our texting is casual because I don’t want her to think I’m being too aggressive or clingy. What I want to know now is:
How often should I text her without seeming needy?
Text as much as you can, but set boundaries. If she’s busy, don’t be pushy. And if she doesn’t reply, don’t flood her with messages—wait for her response before you text her again or send another message.
Just don’t flood her with messages while she’s replying. Keep the conversation going naturally when she responds. But if she stops replying, don’t keep bothering her, because it might have a negative effect—especially if you still plan to court her.
