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I met a woman 9 months ago at the point of separating from her husband, she tried twice before but had not the courage to do it. They both were living together just because it was easier than to separate, after 20 years together it was rutine and they both agreed nothing could happen with them as they stopped loving and caring for each other.
We started an affair and of course that helped her make some decisions. A month and a half ago she decided to leave her house. Besides having me, leaving her house caused her to feel guilty. She aked me time and space to solve her past life or she would not be able to have a future with me.
She used to be very lovely with me, always texting me telling me how much she loves me and all over me. Now is like if I don’t exist but from time to time she does sends me a text message saying she loves me, is all I receive. Is it normal, her reaction?
How should I act towards her as I don’t want to lose her but the distance is killing me.

[Ask April Masini]

It sounds like she never divorced her husband. 😳 She my have told you she was through with him, but the reality is, she wasn’t — and she isn’t. She tested the waters outside of her marriage with you, but wasn’t ready to leave her marriage.

My advice is not to wait for her. It’s really important to find a woman who is [i]available[/i] to be with you. She isn’t. She’s not done, for whatever reason, with her marriage, and ending it should be a decision she makes on her own — not because she’s got a boyfriend waiting in the wings to take the place of her husband. Dating a woman who’s divorced is fine — and even great — but make sure she’s finished with her marriage before you enter the picture.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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