[Vanda27]

Hello,

I had a one-year relationship. We broke up because he was not ready for commitment. It was my choice to end the relationship. I suffered when we were together, because I wanted more and he did not. At the same time he was my best friend and a great lover. We spent almost all our free time together and never got bored. Even when we were at work we used to email each other. There was a very strong connection.
But I was loosing a respect for myself, since, despite all this he did not want to have an

[Anonymous]

hi. obviously, he isn’t ready for a commitment. why commit yourself to something if he will not reciprocate? i understand your feelings of mental anguish in missing him. i know it’s not an easy thing to get through. find solace in close friends. pick up a hobby that you love to do and that you are good at doing. refrain from all contact with him, dispose of anything and everything that reminds you of him. i know it may be painful, but it’s the only way to get over it.

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