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April

I had accidently met a guy at work about 1 year ago, we exchanged email, start chatting online, and then start going out on a date and we did had a relationship for about 3 months. We had a really good time even though he is busy with work and gradually for some reason, I think he is somehow distance from me, and as he told me he might wanna moved to New York to pursue his career… So we basically broke up, I was really heartbroken and in despair. Took me like couple of months for recovery. We lost contact since.
3 months ago he showed up in my office by surprise telling me that he is back for a while and wanna to see how am i doing? We went out for a little coffee and we chat for a bit. After that we exchange couple of text messages and then we lost touch. 2 weeks ago, and he texted me on my birthday and asking me out. We went outh and he told me if we can start seeing each other again. I was kind of confused. Over the 3 months we were dated before, I have no clue of where he live, where he work and how his life is?? He just come and goes as he pleases. And sometimes it makes me wonder … is the dating market out there are soo bad that people are starting to recycle?? lol or he is too lonely or bore… or am I that good??

April I do value your opinions and maybe I am the person that like to know why and I kind of wanna to know what this guy purposes of coming back for? (as i know he wont give me a straight answer) or should i just dont waste time and move on??

thanks
Anna

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

My advice is to not waste any more time on a guy that isn’t showing any kind of a real commitment to you. He’s treating you like a hobby. If he’s interested in see you and has free time, he will. Otherwise, he’s —- outta there!

Forget asking about his motivations and focus on your own. 😉

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