It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to end it. As much as you’d like things to be better with your now ex-boyfriend, it sounds like he is very clear about wanting to break up. 😳 The fact that he threatened you and “everyone you love” means that this is an abusive relationship, and not one that you should be in. I know that it’s hard to hear this, but your priority has to be your child. If he’s threatening to hurt her or him, because this is someone you love, your priority has to be to protect the baby first, and that means limiting contact with him for both the baby and yourself.
I know you want him to forgive you, but the reality is that you’ve got it backwards. If he threatened you and everyone you love, he’s the one who should be asking for forgiveness. Focus on you and your child, let go of this relationship that isn’t a healthy one.
I know this is hard to hear, but I hope that it helps.
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