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I can feel myslef falling for him

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    emc13
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    So just about a month ago a barista in a coffee shop asked me out, we have been seeing each other since. Since then I have met his mum, brother and step dad, and they are all really nice and his mum seems to really like me. I have spent one night at his, but we didn’t do anything but makeout. The things he says to me lead me to think he wants to be with me like, “When you starting coming over more often you should get a bus pass” or “I’ll ask my mum if next time you can do yoga with her, I’m sure she’ll be down with that.” and stuff like that as if he knew that I would be around for a long time.He doesn’t like texting that much, which I can understand. He is also quite the wild boy with drinking and other “substances” but I don’t care cause I REALLY like him.
    recently we havn’t seen much of eachother which sucks on my side cause I love spending time with him, even if it’s just chilling at home. He has ignored some texts and cancelled on me a couple time, with legit reasons. I am still unsure what he wants from all this, I personally want to BE WITH HIM. We havn’t slept together yet it’s just been really cute up to now.
    What do you think? Should I say something? If so what? I am REALLY stuck here.

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    Definitely don’t say anything. 😕 Instead, continue to observe the way he treats you, which is the real clue about how he feels. What he says is nice, but if it is different from what he does, then trust the latter. Actions speak louder than words. I think that the reason you want to “say something” to him is because you’re frustrated with his actions. He isn’t treating you the way you want to be treated. You’re crushing on him, but it sounds like he’s slowing down his attentions. What you can do is when you do talk, text or meet with him, let him know how you feel by flirting with him. This is a pretty basic way to let a guy know you’re into him, without spelling it out, or coming on too strongly. It also gives him something to go on — and if he’s into you, he’ll take those hints, of you flirting, and chase after you.

    In the meantime, stay cool and play the field so you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket. It will make you more interesting, less needy, and a smart dater. 😉

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