"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."
"April Masini answers questions no one else can
and tells you the truth that no one else will."

I can’t figure out whether or not he likes me before making another move. Is there someone who can help to explain?

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    sooyun
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    First meeting was during Christmas at church when Bishop complimented the new uniform they had and at the same time his eyes and mine were connected. Later around March, when I noticed he didn’t seem to avoid eye contacts with me.

    From afar when we have Mass, I feel there is a connection that he looks at me and I also look at him. One time when I smiled at him, he looked away and then hid away from my sight when walking down. He seems to walk with his head up.
    Sometimes I was confused whether or not he looked and smiled at me, so I just had my normal face and then he had a normal face as well. When we have Mass at the gym that I sit on the left side instead of my usual right side, I can’t go to his line unless he changes to the left. I notice that if he serves the line in the back, behind my seat, he would walk up with heavy steps, seemed like he’s angry. If he serves the line in front, opposite from my line, I can still go up, his steps are more relax, doesn’t seem in a mad mood. On Mother’s day weekend, I was out of town and when I got back last Sunday, he walked up at the beginning of Mass totally like mad, but still would hurry to get the seat that faced directly where I sat as if someone would take it from him. Yet, the whole Mass time, I just can’t tell that he looked at me, more of like avoiding, siting with legs opened. Yet he would serve on the opposite line in front and again his steps were more relax. After Mass when walking right by him, facing opposite direction, I said hi in a soft voice, but totally he would have his head up and looked on the side…

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    AskApril Masini
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    I think you’re talking about your having a crush on the Bishop at your church — is that correct? Also, how old are you?

    I think you’re asking me if he’s interested in you, since your’e interested in him. The best way to know if a guy wants to date you is if he asks you out on a date. If he smiles at you, flirts with you and starts conversations with you, these are also signs he’s interested. I don’t get the feeling from what you’ve written that this man is interested, but maybe you can fill me in a little more. 😉

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    sooyun
    Member #373,810

    lol. It’s not the Bishop, but the guy who help serves for the Bishop. I’m 24 and from what I know he’s younger than me, 5-6 years. We’re not really friends and just see each other at church. Since Christmas Mass, we somehow got some eye contacts and from there, I tend to notice he shows it more toward my eyes. I think he smiled at me sometimes, because I get this strong feeling that he did even if I just looked around during church time and since there are more adults and old people at my church compare to any young girls like me. Yet, I still don’t want to assume things and so sometimes I look at him without smiling even when I feel he smiled at me. I notice when he serves in the back line and I go to the front line during Communion session at church, he seems to act angry with heavy steps when he was done. When he serves the line in front, opposite from where I go, his steps are more relaxed and don’t seem to act angry. I was gone for the weekend and when I got back last week, he seemed to be upset and avoid eye contacts with me, but when I said hi to him in a soft voice when he walked by, he didn’t seem to want to look at me, just turned his head and looked at a side.

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    AskApril Masini
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    Got it. So you’re 24 and he’s 18 or 19. The age gap isn’t a big deal, but he may not have the experience and confidence to approach you. Usually, if a guy likes you, you’ll know it because he’ll want you to like him and he’ll try to win you over. He’ll smile, flirt, make conversation — and ask you out on a date!

    If he isn’t interested, he won’t. You can try talking to him and asking him questions, to see if he takes the opportunity to flirt with you. But I wouldn’t spend a lot of energy on him since he doesn’t seem to be acting all that interested. 😕

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