[quote]I believe he is my soulmate. He has never done anything bad or wrong to hurt me. He is a really great guy.[/quote]
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Your boyfriend was sexting with multiple women he’s never met. While he was dating you. I’m quite sure that that hurt you, and disqualified him from being the really great guy you’re calling him. Time for you to reconsider what it means for someone to be “a great guy”. As for his being your soulmate….. I think you need to get over that, too. Your soulmate wouldn’t hurt you like that.
Now, that doesn’t mean you can’t get over something like this, but you need to really open your eyes and be a little more realistic about what you’re looking for in a man — and a husband. So, to get over this, you need to understand WHY he did what he did, and it doesn’t sound like he knows or is ready to tell you if he does know. And unless something changes, it would seem that the same thing will happen.
It’s really up to him to prove to you that he is different and has changed. And unless you can understand, from him, why he did what he did and how he’s changed and things will be different next time, I don’t think you should get back together with him. But if he can come to you on his own — without your prompting — and he can convince you that he’s changed and how and why, then you can give it another shot.
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