Three dates is too soon to tell her you love her, and even if you didn’t, she said, “I like you, but I don’t love you,” because she was trying to slow you down. This doesn’t mean you have to be friends — it means you should continue dating to get to know each other, but slow down. If you push too hard you’ll scare her away. In addition, you’re still getting to know her, as well. Keep dating, but don’t pressure her or the relationship!