[xXSukiDesuXx]

In the beginning of the school year i found out one of my guy friends friend likes me…I didn’t know him but eventually we became close. He kept telling me i was so awesome and how much he loved me. I started to gain feelings for him but…one day he left to china to visit his grandfather. When he came back he lost all feelings for me. At that time I was crazy in love with him. I still am. But i always felt like i shouldn’t love him so i avoided him. Now he likes my close friend. I feel teared and heart broken. What should i do? I wanna move on but it’s so hard. i still love him so much. But my feelings make me feel jealous…Ooh.. What should i do? 😥

[Clara]

Feelings and behavior are two[i] completely[/i] separate things, and the sooner you understand this, the bigger jump on relationships you’re going to have! 🙂 You can have feelings, but not act on them, and that’s what I suggest you do here.

It’s hard to be disappointed and not get what you want — but that’s part of life. This guy isn’t interested in you, and you should take the rejection as a gift. Here’s what I hope you can start thinking: “Why on earth wouldn’t he want me? What’s WRONG with him? Boy, I’m not going to waste one more minute of my valuable life worrying about a guy who isn’t smart enough to want me!”

See? Don’t you feel better just uttering those words? 😆

Not everyone you like will like you back, and not everyone who likes you will be lucky enough to have your affection in return. Take those rejections as gifts that tell you not to waste your time where you’re not wanted. Then move on and find the places where you ARE wanted — and where you want to be.

I hope that helps! 😀

[xXSukiDesuXx]

Thanks April…Just hearing those words actually made me feel better thank you so much…Maybe now i can get stronger 😀

[Anonymous]

It isn’t right for a girl of your age to obsessed with boy – when I was younger I spent my time chasing after men and I never realised what was really important in life. I turned to Jesus and he showed me the truth, and I was able to focus on what mattered. I hope you find Jesus in your hardships. Amen sister.

[Clara]

I’m glad I was able to help — and I’m glad [b]HolliOli[/b] was able to find her own happiness and share her experience. You never know where you’re going to get the advice that resonates for you! 🙂

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