[misskirsty]

My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years and I want to be a WWE diva (I no it sounds dumb) but the problem is I live in the UK and he doesn’t want to move or even go on holiday to america just to see what it’s like. He is holding me back. I don’t no what to do please help me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t know how old you are, but the most important thing to do is to decide what YOU want for your life, and if your boyfriend of two years and your life dreams are not compatible, then you have to choose. I know you don’t want to face this harsh fact, but there are ways to soften the black and white nature of choosing. For instance, you can try a long distance relationship or you can decide to come to America and give your career goals a limited amount of time to see if they’re realistic or not, and see if your boyfriend is willing to wait for you and visit you, etc. while you’re trying to make your dreams come true for you.

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[misskirsty]

Well Im only 19. I’ll have another talk with him about it. Thanks for the advice.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you’re only 19, and marriage and children aren’t on your immediate horizon, and you’ve been dating him for two years — which means you don’t have a lot of dating experience — then my advice is to follow your career dreams. If he’s there with you during that journey, or when you’re back from it, then you’ll learn a lot about him and the relationship. If he’s not, you’ll learn a lot, in a different way, also. 😉

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[misskirsty]

I spoke to him about it again and I told him if I could eventually get a carrer then I will choose that over him and he agreed for us just to go on holiday to america just to see what it’s like over there so big thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome! 😀

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