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I have feelings for my best friend

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    Sexygal
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    I use to date this guy .. lets call him Joe.. over 3 yrs ago..after we had broke up we stopped talking for a couple weeks then we started to see each other again…He is my best friend and he knows I have feelings for him..He says he cares about me…A few months ago he had sex with his bf’s gf over a period of 2 months… i said joe just used you for sex cause he always talked bad about her behind her back…her bf told her the same thing Joe used her…When I told Joe I knew about him and Dana he lied to me…I dunno if he didn’t wanna hurt my feelings but it did..Joe don’t trust many of his friends but he does trust me.. I have keys to his apartment n truck…He also has kept a bday from me that I gave him over a yr ago on his last bday in early 2011…Why does he still got it..I’m glad he still has it…when I’m upset Joe will call me to find out why and he does cheer me up…please help

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    My advice is to stop being friends with this guy. I never recommend men and women being friends — especially men and women who’ve dated, like you two have. The reason is that one person always has more feelings than the other, and there’s confusion and hurt feelings.

    You’re asking questions about your ex-boyfriend, but you should really be asking questions about yourself. If your romantic relationship didn’t work out, why don’t you find someone who is available to date and who wants to date you? That’s the big question you have to answer. If the answer is that you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, then my advice is to move on and find someone who reciprocates those feelings and behaves in a way that is healthy for you!

    You won’t be happy staying in this “relationship” where you’re getting involved in his business, Dana’s business, and other people’s business. You need to focus on your own life and your own happiness. 🙂 Give him back his keys and move on.

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