I now it is quiet long, but i just cant explain my situation differently.
Well, about 2 months ago I met with a girl in a club. We danced for hours, and she gave me her facebook address. After that day, we’d started to chat online for at least 5-6 hours per day. We were talking about everything. By the time, she started to tell me about her special life, problems, exs,… After one week, she wanted to meet me again. She said she wanted to know me better, to trust me. 3 weeks later we had first met in the club, She called me to her house to watch movies. We had a great time, and after that I went to her house every single weekend, and I was staying in her house all weekend. I am absolutely sure that she really liked me, and she still does.
About 3 weeks ago, suddenly she started to talk with me so weird. We werent chatting like before. She told me that she was feeling strange, and thinking may be she was pregnant. Her period was late about 2 weeks. But now she is sure that she is not pregnant.
Anyway after that happened, her feelings changed suddenly. I asked what happend, and if she wanted to cut all contact with me. She says she doesnt want to cut it off, but she just wants to be friends, and nothing more.
I know she is in a mess now. She has a lot of problems in her life. Besides she broke up with her ex about 8 months ago. and she told me that she loved him so much and he broke her heart. I know she is still suffering about that.
2 days ago, i went to her place to talk face-to-face. She said she doesnt feel anything about me, and at the same time she doesnt want me to be sad. Actually she said me before that she was in a big mess, she tries to settle things down in her life and isnt ready for a serious relationship.
I asked her 100s of times that if it is because of me or becasue of you. she tells it is just because of her problems. I asked her for a chance, not now, may be in the future i will have a chance with you or not. She said, there is no any chance. she just doesnt feel anything about me. and she knows that I love her.
I dont know what to do. I know i should give her a space, time. Just please dont tell me “move on” because i did it lots of times, and i was never be sure, and so stubborn about a girl. I 100% that she likes me. and i am still hoping that one day she will feel the same things about me back.
There’s no love lost because there was no love to begin with. So, is there any chance that she might be ine love with me in the future?
PS. When i dont write to her, she usually writes me, and ask questions about daily things. I am sure she likes me, she still says that everytime we talk. I know she just doesnt want me to be sad, and get this thing over. also before we had that argument she have used to say that she is in a mess, she can not involve with anyoneelse, neither with me. She has lots of problems in her life now. I know that. And at least for now, I just dont want to give up on her. And I said this to her face. I want to wait for awhile and see what will happen.
