[jenlee]

hello again!!! so my best friend is getting married. and i am one of her maid of honors. well the guy i am walking down the isle with, i have kinda known him for 3 yrs. we have been talking for maybe 2 wks, but about every day stuff, nothing on relationship level. well we both went to the same birthday party on saturday. and hit it off. and we also made out, which i know was not the best idea. but it happened and i cant take it back. well he text me the next day just asking what i was up to. well by the end of the conversation he kinda left it open to where there really wasnt a need for me to reply. so i didnt. and i was kinda hoping he would of text me today. but he didnt. so now im a little worried. which a couple of people have told me that he is probably either busy or maybe he is waiting another day to make it look not so desperate. im not even sure y im even concerned about this. i shouldnt be cuz its not like the 5th date or anything. but it kinda has me wondering. can u help me??? please and thank u!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t react with so much anxiety or you’ll do something you don’t mean to do. Let him do the chasing. If he wants to find you he knows how to do it. Don’t make yourself too available or worry about every response or lack of a response to a text. Keep yourself busy, and make sure you see yourself as the prize he has to work for to win — that is if you want him. Men love to do the chasing, and if you don’t let him do that and don’t give him something to chase, he’ll fade away for sure.

So wait and see what happens while in the meantime making your own life full and busy so you don’t dwell on him texting or calling.

[jenlee]

Your right!!! i will definitely sit back, and see what happens. and i agree on keeping busy i wasnt for the other day. lol thanks again!!!! 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m so glad I could help. Staying busy and improving yourself can be your biggest dating advantage! 😀

[Bea Celine]

Just wait for him to contact you and make an effort to see you again. Don’t jump into conclusion that he might be not interested to you. Just go with the flow, getting to know each other and have a conversation if he initiated. Don’t do the first move, let the man to that because that is their job.

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