[quintillian]

I have the best man in the world, he is kind, he is a good father, and he has been with me at my worst. We have known each other for 12 years and have been married twice, the first time was for 5years then we split up for a year and got back together and got re-married two year after that and now have been married for 4 yrears .our sex life sucks right now and I’m worried that he just doesn’t do it for me. Has anyone else lost that sexual attraction toward their spouse? And how can I get that back?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Your experience is normal. And, it certainly doesn’t mean your relationship is over. But it does mean you have to work a little to get the X back in your sex life. I’ve written a book called [b]Romantic Date Idea[/b]s, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url], that you should buy, read and use because it’s designed specifically for couples like you and your husband, who need to get the spark back. The book will give you lots of tips, advice and situations that you can implement, at all price points, to set the scene for a sexier relationship.

That said, good sex starts with you, and you may not realize that you’re exhausted, overwhelmed and overbooked — all of which drain your sexual energy and leave the two of you fumes to work with. 😕 So, taking care of you is first and foremost. You can’t just summon a sexual experience the way you might have when you were dating. Now, you both probably have jobs, a home, kids — and this creates a need for planning — not just the time and space for sex, but the grooming, the sleep beforehand, and the scene. Spend some time and money on yourself to condition yourself for re-igniting the sexual spark. Buy the book and use it, and then let me know how things go.

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[quintillian]

Thank you so much for that advice, it really is so true. Romance leads to attraction and I think that’s what we have been lacking. I will buy your book and maybe I can get him to read it with me. Thank you again 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. I hope you’ll read it first and then decide if it’s something you want to share with him — or, perhaps, keep to yourself in your “arsenal” of help! 😉

Happy New Year!

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