[Rozie1]

Well I’ve been dating a lady 11 years younger than me for about 5 months now give or take . Yes shes going through a divorce final divorce is in march. It was going great in the beginning then couple weeks went bye she said she cant i said fine. Then we were back together the same day an she says give me time bare with me i said no problem then couple of months went bye she said she has fallen for me. Now its been almost 5 months give or take an she says i want ti be left alone right now she enjoys being eith me doing stuff takking to me but she has inner demons snd emotions she has to d3al with and its not fair to me snd she just wants me as a friend right now snd this is not completely over and that this will progress and i asked her do we see other people she said no this is not completely over i just need yiu as my friend right now. How do i keep from losing her or her changing her mind i need help with this. This is actually the best lady I’ve ever met. Her soon to be ex husban has cheated on her lied to her stole from her . I want help on what to do an how to keep her

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She’s married, and it’s always complicated dating someone who already has a spouse. 😉 My advice is to wait until she’s single and then pursue her. If you don’t, you’re going to play second fiddle to her husband because even though she and her husband may be pursuing a divorce, they’re not divorced, and until they are, you’re going to continue to feel jerked around as she figures out what she wants to do in terms of being married or not.

I know you want to keep from losing her, but the reality is that until she’s actually single, there’s nothing for you to lose. Back off, let her get divorced — and then pursue her. 🙂

I hope that helps.

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