[WolfStud]

I met a girl 3 weeks ago.. She is new to the country and we went out a few times. One night, she stepped up the relationship by texting me and telling me she is out with her roomies but she wanted to me to join because she wanted to see me.. I went out with them and as we were going from one place to another, she fell asleep in the car and when I woke her up as soon as we arrived, she grabbed my hand and held it.

We spent the rest of the night holding hands.. then I went to her place and we cuddled to sleep, we made out but no sex. We met 2 days later then 3 days after that and everything was going just fine.

We had a little misunderstanding 3 days ago and since then the contact has been minimal. Anyways, last night I texted her saying “I miss YOU”, and today noon she replied with “I miss you too, but i need some space. im not ready to settle down and i didnt like how things were moving so quickly.”

I replied: “I felt that. And I totally understand.. you need your space and I’ll give that to you.. however, if you need a friend, I’m always here..”

She replied with: “Thank you 🙂“

Anyways, what does it mean what she sent me? Is it over? Or is she playing? I am not into playing games, I am very straightforward. And was my reply fine? What are the next steps that I need to do?

Thanks,

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She means that you didn’t ask her out on a date or let her see that you wanted to get to know her. You also told her that you’re there for her as a friend, and most women who make out with a guy aren’t interested in being friend zoned, which is what you did — only with benefits. 😕

My advice is that if you want to date her, then invite her to do something like movies, drinks, dinner a sport — and make it a really special date so she understands that you’re clear on what you want from her.

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