[dawn]

I really like this guy, and my friends suspect he likes me too. But the difficult thing about it is that he mostly hangs out with a very selective group of friends, all have the same tastes in most things, I guess they are labeled as hipsters around here. I’m not a person to join groups or segregate people in any way, I talk to everyone and hang with very different kinds of people. But I feel that the interests of that little group are not at all related to mine, on the other hand every time I spoke to this guy he always had a very interesting topic to discuss, but in the last year or so he stopped approaching me or even saying hello.
I really don’t know what to do, because when I like someone I can’t really be logic and become extremely shy and say the randomest illogical things.. It would be so out of the blue for me to ask him for coffee when I see him almost everyday and nothing happens… Any advice? 😐

[Nate_OK]

You should definitely ask him out for coffee. The best would be to talk to him a bit and ask him directly. But if you can’t really get in touch with him, text or call.
Guys tend to like women that know what they want and are pro-active.
Being shy can be quite touching for a guy. But I guess the best tip to overcome you shyness is to think about positive things before going to him. It will make you feel confident and relax.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

People who are extremely shy can really excel at flirting because the best flirting is elusive and not “in your face.” 😉 It sounds like he doesn’t know you’re interested (or interested enough), which is where flirting comes in. Flirting is a woman’s tool to entice a man, and give him something to chase. Men love chasing women and they love conquest. If he can get a date with you, that he thinks is hard to get, he’ll be very pleased with himself, and he’ll equate that feeling with you. 😎

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