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I really like this guy at work do you think he likes me?

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    Jenamos
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    I really like this guy that I work with, and I was wondering how I can I tell if he likes me or not?

    We work at a coffee shop, and he flirts with all the customers, which I think is hilarious. When I first met him, I was like ‘are you kidding me?’ but then I got to know more about him and realized that he’s actually a pretty good guy. And when a hot girl comes in we always eye each other as to say ‘ whoa look at her!’ And this never makes me jealous, I actually really enjoy it. We are always scheduled together and constantly are flirting/teasing each other and I just love spending time with him. Since he’s kind of a player, he occasionally tells me his tricks to getting woman and then I’ll realize he’s done the same things with me, which is interesting. (Says he always asks customers to go rock climbing as a first date, then invites me rock climbing etc) He’s confinded in me and told me about his troubled past and I just really feel like we have a connection. He always gives me rides home (and he lives close so we walk to his house and then he gives me a ride) and we’ll chat a while after and he has helped with my art projects.

    Does it sound like he likes me? Or am I just making this all up?

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    AskApril Masini
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    You already know that he likes you! 😉 But he hasn’t asked you out on a date, so you don’t know if he likes you [i]enough[/i] to date you — which I think is what you want. The definite answer to that question is his asking you out. So be clear that that’s your goal. 🙂

    In order to facilitate the goal, consider flirting with him. When you flirt with a guy, you give him a clue that you’re interested — and you also, more importantly, give him something to chase after. Guys love chasing and winning women over. You also want to be careful to take yourself out of the friend zone, which is what you’re in now. Don’t be so available to him — and coupled with flirting, will let him know you want to date him, not be his friend.

    You should buy and read [b]Think & Date Like A Man[/b], the book I wrote for women who want to get the guy (and keep him!). You can buy it here: [url]https://askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]

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