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I think i screwed it up

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    hopeless113
    Member #9,874

    [b]I did the impossible, I went on a dating site and found the man that I want to marry. We dated for 5 months and I started having major family problems that i couldnt really share with him. I have never felt this way for any man ever. I dated a man for 5yrs and never got as close as him and i are. It scared me to death. So I ran. I want him back so badly but he has given up on us. I don’t know what to do. I am hopelessly in love with him. I know that 5 months is fast to say i love him and want to spend my life with him but i would have married him the night we met if i could have.

    What can I do to show him I love him and want to be with him? I want to show him that im not going to run anymore.[/b]

    #12992
    Ask April Masini
    Keymaster

    Too late — you blew it. 😳 Sorry, but it’s true. That said, you need to look at what happened so you don’t blow the next relationship.

    All indicators point to problems with honesty. If you were having problems with your family you should naturally share them with any man you want to marry. If you can’t share your family problems with your boyfriend, fiance or husband — you’re not ready to marry. Honesty and intimacy are important success tools in relationships. You need to find yours!

    You’re too focused on getting a man to marry you and not focused on what you need to seal that deal. Being honest is crucial in relationships and marriage — especially when it comes to family and family problems and secrets.

    #11873
    hopeless113
    Member #9,874

    I was afraid you would say that. it has been so difficult trying not to be in love with him… i cant seem to move on.. What do i do? he is everywhere…. i even tried dating again and he called me and asked me to come over.. I have trouble telling him no. I think part of my problem is due to the sex life we had. it was great, the best i have ever had. I think i have become his friend with benefits and i hate it! HELP…

    #12369
    Ask April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’ve been vague about your life outside of this brief description of Mr. Wrong, but my suspicion is that your self esteem is very low and you don’t think you deserve the brass ring in a guy. So, instead, you settle for sex when he wants it and disrespect on all fronts. Not a great deal you’re cutting for yourself. 😳

    I know I sound like a broken record when I suggest readers buy my book, but the reason I do is that I’ve written Think & Date Like A Man for women just like yourself who are failing in relationships, don’t want to, but don’t know how to win. If you buy this book (it’s $15.95 — skip Starbucks for a month and you’ll have made the better investment in this book), and read it, you’ll be much better off having done so than you are today. So I do hope you’ll do that. The link for the book is here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

    And until you finish reading (it’s short, but it will take you a day or two), just say no. It’s that simple. Practice. And if you can’t say no to this guy, then don’t pick up your phone. Don’t read your e-mails, and don’t type on your keyboard. Hide your car keys from yourself, and get a buddy to call when you feel you’re going to cave and see Mr. Wrong.

    But once you read the book, realize what you CAN have and what to do to get him, then it won’t be so hard for you to stay away from Mr. Wrong.

    I hope this helps — I know that you face a path that is harder walked than considered, but you have to take a step in the right direction.

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