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I want a relationship and then I **M…..

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    charles01
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    I’m a 29 year old attractive male. I was married when I was 18 and it lasted 3 years. After that I dated a lot for about 4 years. But for the last 4 years I have’nt dated at all. I’ve pretty much cut myself off from the world. On top of all that I want to date again and even get married one day. My problem is I want to get back into the game so bad, and then I masterbate and dont care anymore.. Before I do it I’m full of hope and excited about meeting new women. Then when i’m done. I dont care anymore and that lasts until the next time. Its been like this for 4 years.. And honestly I’m funny, tall, and attractive?? What can I do other than the obvious??

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    AskApril Masini
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    If masturbating alone stops you from wanting a relationship, then maybe it’s just sex you’re craving when you think you want a relationship! Relationships are about companionship, having someone to tell your secrets to, and to hear theirs, someone to build a future with and share a family with — whether or not you have children, and yes, sex, too! But sex is just a part of relationships. And sexual release is just a part of an intimate sexual relationship that is much more than just that release.

    So, consider the fact that maybe you don’t want a relationship, you just want a sexual release, and if that’s the case, you seem to be able to take care of that yourself. I know you think that it’s obvious, but sometimes the best solutions to problems are right in front of us.

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    charles01
    Member #342,445

    You might be right… I was speaking more to the ambition to go out and date. Just that first step. I loved being married and everything that came with it. I think I’m going to try and take a break from masterbation. Its not like I do it all the time anyway. And see where it takes me.. Thanks a lot

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    AskApril Masini
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    You’re very welcome. 🙂

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