[Pas1203]

I started dating this guy in aug. 2008 he’s was seeing someone else but when he and her broke up it was because he realized he wanted me not her. Ever thing was fine we were both happy and I felt great. Then my friends started getting in the way, and you could tell it was annoying him. Me and him talked it out many of times, but I guess that wasn’t enough. He told me that he really liked me but he just didn’t want a girlfriend. And that was that we didn’t speak for a long time which I couldn’t handle. He had became my best friend. We dated for about six months but knew each other for almost a year. When finally did talk it was nothing but arguments. I had been told that he was seekng a friend of ours and jealous got over me. He said it wasn’t true and so did the girl. I believe it now because I know she’s seeing someone else. But now he still won’t speak to me. I was hanging out with a muteral friend if ours and he asked me if I still liked my ex. I told him I didn’t know and asked why he was asking. He told me that the two if them had been talking and he said that my ex. Told him the reason we broke up was too many people got involved so he didn’t want a girlfriend and in time he thought that I wasn’t interested so he wasn’t interested and that was that. I’ve tried to move on but I can’t help but want him. He still hasn’t had a girlfriend but he still hasn’t talked to me. We see each other almost everyday because we work together I chatch him looking at me a lot. I just want him back but I don’t know how cause I know him and he’s stubborn. How do I get him back?

[JesseKim]

Ask him to go out for coffee or something after work, INITIATE CONTACT! It’s not always up to the man so step up and tell him or better SHOW HIM that you still care. Yes it’ll put you out on a limb but the worst he can do is say no and when you think about it thats better than sitting there wondering what would happen. 🙂 YOU CAN DO IT!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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