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I’m really bad at talking to her…

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    samusaran253
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    Just talked to my friend for the first time in about two months. I’m still really bad when it comes to talking to her. After she appeared to show little to no interest in how I’ve been since the last time we’ve talked, I sort of confronted her about it and then she got mad at me. It should be noted that while we both go to the same high school and are both seniors, we have never met in real life in the 8 months or so that we’ve known each other. We used to talk almost everyday, but then I told her that I liked her like 2 months ago, and everything was awkward for a bit, then we stopped talking about two months ago, once I started sort of making her feel bad because of how I sort of blamed her for everything. I don’t have any feelings for her and she doesn’t have any for me, other than friendship. Anyone have any advice?

    [quote][b]me[/b]
    8:36:11 PM
    how have you been?

    [b]her[/b]
    8:36:20 PM
    ok i guess u?

    [b]me[/b]
    8:36:41 PM
    ok…

    [b]me[/b]
    8:36:49 PM
    We haven’t talked in a while, have we?

    [b]her[/b]
    8:37:23 PM
    nope

    [b]me[/b]
    8:38:04 PM
    So did you go to Prom?

    [b]her[/b]
    8:39:45 PM
    yep lame dont care to talk bout it

    [b]me[/b]
    8:39:54 PM
    I’m sorry you didn’t have fun

    [b]me[/b]
    8:40:04 PM
    Okay, I won’t ask you anymore about it.

    [b]her[/b]
    8:40:08 PM
    its whatev

    [b]me[/b]
    8:40:51 PM
    Are you and that guy still together?

    [b]me[/b]
    8:43:48 PM
    okay…

    [b]her[/b]
    8:45:15 PM
    does it matter

    [b]me[/b]
    8:45:25 PM
    No./

    [b]me[/b]
    8:45:55 PM
    I just wanted to see how you were doing. I hoped you would have shown the same intrigue towards me

    [b]me[/b]
    8:46:55 PM
    its whatever

    [b]me[/b]
    8:47:07 PM
    It’s not like we were ever close anyway

    [b]her[/b]
    8:47:26 PM
    this is why we havent fucking talked.

    [b]me[/b]
    8:47:57 PM
    Because I always try and make you out to have done something wrong?[/quote]

    #17989

    She’s not really interested in you — sorry! 😳 If she was, you’d know it! The reason you feel like you’re bad at talking to her is because she doesn’t want to talk to you and she’s not “giving” anything to the conversation. If you find a girl who likes you and is interested in getting to know you further, you’ll find that the conversation will flow easily. My advice is to stop contacting her. It’s a waste of your time. Instead, seek out girls with whom the conversation flows and you’re BOTH interested in each other. 😀

    I hope that helps, and that you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter.

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