[citygirl92]

I’ve known Michael for a few months now and over time I developed feelings for him. His friends confessed to me one night that he did in fact like me, but Mike never made any moves. Last weekend was the first time I had seen or talked to him in about a month (because of college break) and I drunkenly told him how I felt. He said that he liked me as well but his last girl friend really screwed him up and he’s afraid of being in another relationship. That night I slept in his bed and we made out for most of the night, and when we woke up things were normal, although we didn’t mention a word about the hook up. It’s been 5 days and I haven’t heard from him. Should I just move on or should I reach out to him?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

My advice is definitely to move on. He may be a great guy, but he’s admittedly not ready for a relationship. It’s important to choose someone who wants to actually be in the relationship, not someone who says they’re not ready. A drunken one night stand doesn’t mean he’s changed his mind about dating. If he wants to date you he knows how to reach you. Stop stressing over someone you like who isn’t available because he’s not ready to date yet. Look, instead, for someone who’s compatible (meaning they want to date you as much as you want to date them!). 😉

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[citygirl92]

Thank you for the advice! You’re right, I should be with someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Now you’re talking! Turn your life around today and find Mr. Right! 😀

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