Decide what it is you want from a relationship. If you’re looking for marriage and kids, sooner than later, the current boyfriend you have doesn’t seem like a compatible match. If you want companionship only, he may be right for you. But you have to know what you want, first and foremost. Currently, his disappointing behavior has left you vulnerable to other considerations. This guy you’ve met online is just a guy you’ve met online. You may say you love each other, but let’s be real: You haven’t dated in person. The L word is not something you should be telling each other — before a first kiss, let alone a first date or meeting. 😉 It’s probably not a good idea to consider moving to his state to be with him, when you haven’t once met. 😕 I know you want to be loved and be in a relationship, but if that’s what you want, focus on that and come up with a good solution on how to get that! Go back to your real problem which is your current relationship — and deal with that first. Decide if you want to stay with your current boyfriend or not, and then proceed from there. If you don’t, you’re going to generate chaos that isn’t necessary. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean that they’re a compatible match for you, and that’s something you’ll figure out with age — starting today! 🙂
I hope that helps. 😉
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