[BeaveCake]

I’m a 19 year old guy who last year lost a lot of hair from a condition, no choice but to shave it all off, so by bald I’m talking Howie Mandel skinhead, people say I pull it off I’m skinny and paler but face and head shape work well, but I’m very concerned how it will affect what girls my age think of me. I’ve read so many other sites of guys who lost hair young who say girls don’t like them anymore and they have to settle etc. And before anyone calls these girls shallow for wanting hair I’ll admit looks matter a lot in attraction to me, I believe it’s natural and not something that makes a person bad, I respect girls wanting looks too, and I do have decent standards but I’m not some player type, I only want one in the end so I take it seriously. But I just can’t imagine an attractive girl 18-24 range who could easily have plenty of stud guys with hair choosing the bald kid who also has no experience-I’ve never had a legit girlfriend, I’m very social and well known where I lived, a few girls pursued me but I wasn’t interested but it was a small community with limited options, still, I feel like bald with no experience makes getting a girl I’d find attractive next to impossible. So I don’t want feel good answers, I appreciate honesty, so psi this a deal breaker to young women in late teens or early twenties or can it be attractive? Thanks for your time

[AskApril Masini]

You’re bald. Someone else is fat. And another guy has a lisp or a speech impediment. In other words, everyone has something, and when you’ve got a difference that’s visible, you may feel self conscious and hyper aware, but the upside is that it gets dealt with right off the bat. Not every woman of any age is going to go for someone who’s bald — but then again, they may not go for someone who’s poor, or short, or who drives a crappy car. In other words, take what you have and play to your assets. 😉

Bald heads can be very sexy, depending on the rest of you — believe me, Donald Trump is not successful with women because of his comb over hair. And Johnny Depp is not successful with women because he’s short. These guys have charisma, talent, success, style — that has nothing to do with bad hair, being short — or anything else.

So, don’t worry about your bald head. Be funny, charming, fun, sexy and successful — and you’ll have no problem. 😀

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