I met this guy through a friend a few weeks ago. We met up at the bar with my friend and some others. We hooked up that night, and we started talking. The next day he wanted me to come out with him to the pub to meet his friends, which I did. So we continued talking. We didn’t text much but he would call me a few times during the week, usually around 6 or 7 pm. We hung out the next weekend as well. Then we didn’t hang out at all for 2 weeks after that. He said he was working every day and was just so busy. We would text a little, maybe 2-3 texts a day. He would still call every couple of days and say things like, “i miss you” and “i can’t wait to see you” and “i hope i get to see you soon.” well this past weekend, he called me at 3 pm on Saturday and asked me to come out to the beach with him. It was a little while before I could make it out there so around 5 he got called into work (to bartend at the hotel he works at) but sent me a message saying for me to come up there to the hotel and hang out. SO of course I went. Well after he closed the bar around 9, he had to go into the office and drop off the money. He brought me into the office with him and introduced me to all his coworkers and bosses. We went out that night and hung out with some of his other friends that i’ve already met as well. Well sunday he was working again and asked me to come hang out with him. I did. Well later that night another girl started drinking at the bar. This guys best friend and I were waiting for him to get off so we could all go out. Well then he invited the other girl out with us! So his friend and I went ahead to the other bar and he showed up with the girl. He sat down two chairs from me and she sat next to me.
Now this is what I don’t understand. His buddy had just asked me what I wanted to happen with me and this guy and I told him that i wasnt sure, but I do like him. ANd he told me that the guy likes me and is always talking about me.
Also, every time we’ve hung out he has always called me his girl, or babe, and has always been clingy to me and kissing on me, even at the bars. SUnday was the ONLY time he didn’t do any of that.
I haven’t heard from him since sunday, other than “hey how’s it going” after I texted him.
Was he/is he interested or is he just playing me?! We’ve hung out at his work, out places, in the daytime, at nights, I’ve spent nights at his house, we stayed in once just to watch movies, he doesn’t make me leave first thing in the mornings, andwe don’t have sex every time we’re together
