[Lisa_Bee2010]

Hey thare!
My name is lisa and I am 18. I have almost no exsprnce with guys I have only had three boyfrineds in my life and I am lost when it comes to guys. And now being out of high school I am ready to try to have a real boyfrined to take me out ect. And I met a guy in the beginning of aug.(he is 21) we started to talk and he knows im looking for a boyfrined. I started to fell attracited to him because he was not like my ex boyfrined whare sex is all that thay thought about. He trated me like a normal person. And a few weeks ago he texted me saying “I want to take our frinedship to the next lvl” so the next time we saw ecother he put his arm around me and we had our furst kiss. Ever sence that when ever I see him he treats me like a girlfrined, but when I ask him if we are boyfrined and girlfrined he says “not yet just friends with benafets” now the most I did for him was oral sex. Just because I wanted to. He talks about it a lot but yet we will hang out at my house and watch a movie and were cuddleing on the chouch (he will have his arm around me kiss my head ect) and im worryed that all he wants from me is more oral even though when were alone he says “only if you want to.” Help! I have no clue wahre this is whole relaship is going!!!

[Ask April Masini]

First of all, oral sex IS sex, so don’t relegate that act to sub-sex or minor sex. It counts.

Second, if you’re spending time with him and performed sex on him, he wants more, but he’s clearly telling you you’re not his girlfriend. 😕 Since you want a boyfriend, you have to understand this man is not that. I don’t recommend hanging out with him any more since he seems to be taking advantage of your lack of experience.

Third, I strongly recommend you purchase (it’s only $15.95) and download Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. RIght. You’re going to benefit GREATLY from the information, tips and advice in this book and it’s a quick read that you can enjoy this weekend if you download now. Here’s that link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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