[amandapanda]

My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year in a half and I feel like it’s falling apart lately… There is such a disconnection that I feel like its hopeless. We use to never fight or disagree but now it seems like it never stops, his friends are always over on the weekends staying the night or we have so much family stuff it’s never have us time.
The ex girlfriend won’t leave him alone which makes me feel uncomfortable he won’t just tell her off and that makes me wonder.
Ever since we started having sex it has been an issue, I am a very sexual women and I enjoy having sex. At first it was really good but he never initiates it and he gets really nervous doesn’t finish. Try to make him more comfortable but nothing seems to work and now sex is just there. It makes me feel unattractive and down on myself. I am only 25 and in good shape so there should be no reason for me to feel like that. I have express all this to him and he try’s but it seems like it’s so forced he never says he loves me or writes me back when I send cute email. I try so hard but I don’t know what else to do. Don’t get me wrong he really is a good guy, just hard to read or get him to open up. Is it me? Am I looking to far into it? I normally a very confident women and not so insecure. please help!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It doesn’t seem from what you write that this is a relationship worth pursuing. If you don’t have time together, the sex is bad and he’s still seeing his ex-girlfriend, what is it that’s making you stick around?

If you both can’t make the relationship a priority, then there’s no reason to stay in it. The fighting, the bad sex, the friends always in the house on weekends to keep the two of you from being intimate and his ex-girlfriend, all have to be attended to if you’re going to stay in this. Frankly, it sounds like a tall order — but that’s your call. From where I sit, I’d advise you to move on.

I hope that helps.

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