So there is this girl I realized I kind of have a thing for, but have not really done anything about it. We do work at the same place I found out that this is what she thinks of me.
“Sometimes people touch you, and you want them in your life for a long time. Relationships ruin that for me”
Is there any chance for something to happen, or should I “cut my loses”? We get along very well with each other and have the same type of humour. For example today, she was telling me how she was treating her bikini line for ingrown hairs. She also got a little surprised and agitated, when she mistakenly thought I was leaving my job. The closest we have come to a date, was when we both decided to have dinner at a casino restaurant at 4.30am after a night of karaoke and clubbing.
I’ve been told that she does not “want anything” from work due to potential awkwardness. Further to this, I’ve found out that I’d be her no 1. choice
What complicates and confuses me is
1. She is 9 months out of a 4 year relationship
2. At work she suggested that act /pretend to others that we are getting married. Also on a night out with work colleagues, she asked me to pretend to ne her husband/bf if anyone hit on her.
3. Because we have a similar style humour it is hard to tell if she is just being her self or stepping it up. Case in point:She came over to my place for the first time, she noticed how my dog was kicking when I was rubbing/scratching her belly, and she said ” You sure know how to find your dogs g-spot”.
4. The way she slept when we were crashing at a friends place.
Feel free to ask any questions
