I met this guy that is significantly younger than me. I’m 32 and he’s 20. We have been talking for about 2 months and have both talked about that we just want a casual sexual relationship (as we both have recently got out of serious relationships).
Now, he doesn’t really call/text me too often. At the beginning, yes – he was making all of the effort (none on my end), but now, it seems like it’s mostly me. I’m not a chaser (usually guys chase me), but I have occasionally textd him. When I do, he ALWAYS calls me right away and we end up talking for hours. Lately, the few times that we’ve talked, he says things to me to imply he thinks that I’m his gf. It’s like his words say “i don’t want a relationship,” but his actions say “I really like you, and want to be with you.”
In my opinion, the fact that he doesn’t make as much of an effort to contact me – tells me that he’s really not that interested. BUT….anytime I do txt him, he wants to talk to me for hours and basically gives me a play by play of his actions/plans (even though I don’t ask for it). I don’t want anything serious with him and he knows that – i’ve been honest from the first day. I do like his company and talking to him – so i don’t want to cut him off – but I don’t want to be his gf. Are we good or should I be concerned that he may developing feelings for me?
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