[AphroditeGirl]

I’ve never done drugs nor will I ever and even though I don’t they still effect my life SO much towards of the one I love. Drugs always seem to beat me and tear my most closest relationships apart and as of right now the drug I’m battling is coke.I’m 21 years old and I’ve only been in 3 relationships in my life. I first fell in love at 17 and was head over hills for my first boyfriend, but after 9 months I lost him to drugs and apparently doing drugs is better than being with me. It was the worst thing I had ever been through in my entire life I’ve never been hurt so emotionally and physically before and I told myself I would never go through that again. Now currently I’m in my 3rd relationship and its both our longest relationship as well. We’ve been together for a year now and he’s addicted to cocaine and its starting to take the same turns as my first relationship and it hurts me very badly and I’m not sure what to do about it. I’m super scared because I’m so in love with him and I haven’t felt like this since I was 17! Am I screwed or is it worth fighting for?!

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Your problem isn’t drugs. You’re using drugs as an excuse. 😮

Your problem is that you don’t feel like you have any self worth. If you did, you wouldn’t date drug addicts. 😳 If you want to feel better about your life, then you have to decide that you are worth being treated well and then start with [i]yourself[/i] by treating [i]yourself[/i] well. It’s not that any of these drug addicts are treating you so badly. The big problem is that YOU are allowing yourself to get involved with drug addicts.

Pretend you had a daughter — would you want her dating drug addicts? Even if she said she loved them? No. You wouldn’t. So don’t put yourself in harm’s way. You have a choice every day. Choose not to spend time with drug addicts. It’s really that simple.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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