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Its been 3 weeks but I STILL feel like I need a closure?

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    omfgcarly
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    I met one of my best friends friends in early febuary. We got really close and developed feelings for each other, and we knew we had feelings for each other. We talked EVERY day for a month, then about 3 weeks ago he told me he had feelings for another girl, made out with her after telling me he liked me and flirting with me, but said he still liked me but liked her more. The conversation ended with me saying that I saw him as any other guy now, becasue he said I probably think hes a complete *** now.

    This was 3 weeks ago and I thought I would get over the feeling that I needed a closure with him, but it hasent changed. We hardly ever see each other in person so the only way we could really communicate was through text, but I havent heard from him. I still really feel like I need a closer with him, just because we were such good friends and I felt like I could trust him, but at the same time I dont want to go to him because I dont want to seem desperate, though I would NEVER give him another chance. What should I do?

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    He gave you closure already. He told you he liked another girl better and he hasn’t been in touch with you in three weeks. That’s closure.

    Maybe what you’re [i]really[/i] hoping for is an apology or a reason that he started liking someone else more than you. But the truth is that since you only met him in February and it’s just March now, he doesn’t really owe you an apology.

    The truth is that people change their minds and decide that maybe someone isn’t right for them. The real gift in this scenario that I hope you’ll consider is that when someone rejects you, he’s doing you a favor. Why would you want to waste time with someone who wasn’t into you? You wouldn’t! So by saving you time he’s doing you a favor. Not everyone is going to think you’re the one — and you’re not going to think every guy who likes you is worth spending your time with either. It’s just the way things work.

    I hope that by digesting that information, you’ll be able to realize it’s time for you to look for another guy — who’s interested in you!

    I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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