He didn’t get stolen from you. He walked away and stayed gone.
A man who lets another woman move into his parents’ house, allows his parents to block you, and makes zero effort to contact you is not being “kept from you.” He is choosing the path of least resistance. Pregnancy scare or not, if he wanted you, you’d hear from him. Men find a way when they actually want to.
Trying to “get hold of him” right now would make you look desperate, powerless, and replaceable. His parents already see you as expendable. Chasing him only confirms that narrative and destroys whatever leverage or dignity you still have.
You don’t force contact with someone who has gone silent. You let silence expose the truth. And the truth is this: he is letting other people run his life, and you are not the priority.
Your job now is not to reach him. Your job is to stop orbiting someone who didn’t protect the relationship, didn’t choose you when it mattered, and didn’t fight for access to you. If he grows a spine and reaches out, then you decide whether he’s worth another minute. Until then, you move forward, not sideways, not backward.
