I get a lot of posts from readers, like yourself, who want closure from a boyfriend (or girlfriend) who’s moved on without suitable explanation or any explanation at all. The bottom line is that you can’t make him give you closure. Once a relationship ends — whether it’s a dating relationship or a marriage — the other person isn’t as invested in your feelings, usually, and isn’t as interested in what you want any more. So you can try and contact him, but it sure looks like he’s not going to be responsive. 🙁 I can see how this is hurtful. Now, you get to see a part of his character you missed along the way.
Two years is a long time to date someone and not get a proper break up — or even a dramatic break up — but it is what it is. Let your heart heal, and when you do get back out there and date again, try and learn more about his character early on.
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