Hello all.
I’ve been in a relationship with a man for a year. In the beginning of the relationship, there were lots of messaging exchanged between the two of us. Our main mode of communication is via SMS and we only meet once a week. However, towards the 2nd half of the relationship, messaging become less frequent. I suddenly felt as if I am the one trying to initiate contact everyday, even after a day of hard work. I felt even more bitter when he was telling me happily that his fellow female colleague whom he is in very good terms with, exchanged messages on their way home, telling each other funny stuff that happened on the way. I had voiced out my concern one day, telling him that I felt that there was less communication between us nowadays, and that i would like to communicate with him more often, just like we’ve done before. He said he would try, it became slightly better for a week, but then returned to its original bad state. It could be a week of silence before we finally meet up again.
I feel sad and scared. Friends have warned me to be careful, especially when we meet once a week only and don’t talk at all on other days. He might stray…
Can someone help me please?
Thank you so much.
