[kevvinn55]

Hello, im 21 years old and single, i have a giant crush on my friend who is in a serious relationship (living together). I have known this girl close to all my life and she is probably the first girl i have felt anything towards. I have only recently got my confidence up to a level where i am willing to pursue her, and im not sure what to do. I feel that also has some feelings towards me, she compliments my looks, laughs at all my jokes, comforts me when she sees i am rejected, and one time we were very close to being physical. To make things even more interesting, she is my boss and my sisters best friend. That makes it hard to find someone to talk to about the situation which is why im askin online. I dont want things to wrong my job, my friendship with her or my sister, so i have not taken many risks. I know she has had problems woth her bf from what she tells me, but i still dont know what to do. Any advice would help, thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you want to win a woman over, and she’s dating someone else, you have to [i]compete[/i] for her. 😉 It sounds like you have your work cut out for you since she’s actually living with someone. It’s also important to take yourself out of the friend zone, so stop being available to her as a friend. And remember that women like guys who are confident and successful, so if she sees you dating other women, she’s going to be intrigued. 😉 If you want more details on dating, you should buy and read the book I wrote for men called [b]Date Out of Your League[/b]. You can buy it as an automatically downloading e-book right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. 😀

Hope that helps!

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[kevvinn55]

Alright thanks, that makes a lot of sense. Just one question, what is the best way to be competitive without drawing to much attention to what i am doing?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not sure I understand what it is you’re asking. You should want to get her attention! 😉

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