First off, let me say that I have had these issues for a while. I always seem to like 2 boys at one time. Currently, one boy I have liked for years (2). He really likes me as well. He’s 24, I’m 21. He lives in Mexico, I live in Indiana, I see him once a year during a missions trip, though I am unsure I am going back next summer. During the past couple years, I have liked other boys. This boy in Mexico doesn’t not know about any of them, except for one that I actually exclusively dated, and that hurt him very much because he (Mexico) and I were very into each other and almost serious for a bit, even though it was long distance. Mexico and I were never together, because long distance is really hard, especially for me I’ve realized. Anyway, I also like another boy. Senior in high school, 18, very mature for his age, smart, etc. All the good things we gals like (both boys have these aspects). I have had issues with commitment in the past, mostly because of the whole long distance thing. I just can’t seem to do it. I like being single, and I like having a boyfriend. This boy close to me (in Indiana) is the only boy I like in the area. Everyone seems to think that Mexico and I are meant to be together (other than my mom and dad anyway). It’s very possible, but I am not sure at the moment. I am no where near ready for marriage (maybe why I’m a ‘cougar’ at times). Mexico even told me at one time that he’s not promising that he will wait for me, but he REALLY (stress on really) likes me. The other boy I am just getting to know (one from Indiana) for about a month or so, but I have known his best friend for years (3 years). Indiana likes me as well, it’s obvious. We both like hanging out together, my family likes him, his family likes me. I guess what I am asking is what do I do? Do I date Indiana (after I get to know him more) or do I wait for Mexico? Thanks in advance! 🙂
