So I met this girl on a dating app, and we had been talking everyday for 5 months before she decided to visit me all the way from Thailand for 1 week( she got free ticket from her work). Just right before she departed, she told me that she’s already in a relationship but not happy. Her bf is a douche who is using her money and make her have a depression to the point she considers going to a doctor, but she doesn’t know how to break up because at 1st she said he’s poor and need help, then later she said because of his parents really love her.She wants to go somewhere far away to get rid of him. So I told her just break up but she said let’s her see and think about it.
Since we already booked all the hotels, there is no going back. We had the best time of our life both of us admit it. And I developed a feeling for her. I tried to hold her hand, cuddle, kiss her but she kept holding back and turn away, so I dont want to harass her too much. Other than that, we are like a happy couple everyone is dreaming of. She told me she appreciated everything and I am the one who takes care of her the best. I told her I like her, and I have found a beautiful girl. Then she said ” u mean a beautiful friend ? “.
We are both travel enthusiasts and have matching dream, goals, personalities … She is kind of sensitive, and insecured. I really like her and she has everything I want from a girl. Now she is back to Thailand, but we plan to travel again in the summer in Thailand. Im not sure what I should do. Should I say directly that she should break up with her bf and be my gf ? Should I just stay silent and move on ? or be patient and let things go the way they are… I guess it’s hard for her too because of too much uncertainty but Im willing to do everything. Thank you for your response.
