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So I have found the love of my life, which is something I thought would never happen, but she is married to a great guy. She is not attracted to said great guy anymore, but does view him like a best friend. We have expressed our mutual feelings and are so in love with each other, but I am wondering am I fooling myself and I guess in the eyes of the judging world I am doing something wrong by having this particular relationship…I don’t believe in ultimatums but am I going to lose out in the end seeing as it has been a number of years(only a couple of weeks since I have expressed to her that she is indeed the love of my life, but I think she already knew that) and they have a house together and such. Please help…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re fooling yourself. She’s married. You’re the piece on the side. (Sorry! But if you’ve been dating her for two years, and she hasn’t divorced her husband or even separated, you need to wake up and smell the coffee.)

You don’t need to give her an ultimatum because if she wanted to leave him she would have. It’s time for you to move on and try to find someone who makes you her number one man first, last and always! 😀

I hope that helps. Let me know what happens and how it goes for you. And join me on Facebook! Here’s that link: [url][/url].

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