[Girln]

I met this guy while i was on vacation and we talked and we exchanged social media and numbers, and then when i had to go back home i wrote him a letter and gave it to him before i went on my plane. But he hasn’t talked to me since. Was it wrong that i did that? Should i talk to him now? (We live in 2 different far continents and im not looking for anything serious i was just mad that he did not talk to me although i gave him a letter that expressed everything.)
Ps: i knew he liked me too and we sat and talked about it and i met some of his friends and he met some of mine

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I can tell that you like him, and I would have suggested that you wait and let him make the first move instead of giving him the letter expressing your feelings, but since you did….. his non-response means he’s not interested. 😳 I know that’s disappointing, but the good news is that you haven’t wasted a lot of time on someone and the fact that he’s being clear with his silence, while disappointing, is a good hint that you should move on. Vacations can be like an altered reality because you’re not in your home and you’re not in your routine and it seems like anything is possible — and sometimes romances blossom on vacations, but they don’t make it back to your house with you! I think that his non-responsiveness is a big sign to you that this isn’t a romance that is going to go the distance from vacation to home.

So, don’t be lost. Be disappointed, but not for too long. Instead, look for someone to date who is local and who, if interested, really wants to make things work. I hope that helps!

[Swera Khan]

Listen darling! Always confess your love when the person in front of you is in your hands, not when you are flying thousands of miles away on a plane. You have given him the whole “emotional buffet” on a plate and have not given him a chance to work hard. Let the man “hunt” a little; let him be a little confused whether you like him or not.
And I agree with AskApril that the guy is sitting on a continent away, “not serious,” and you are not either, so why cry? Consider this letter as proof of your courage for saying what you felt. Now apply the same energy to someone in your city who is waiting for your reply, not you for his silence.

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