[Fairy princess]

I love someone n he loves me back until recently he just stopped talking to me over a minor thing… We r engaged n abt to get married he says he is always busy but he says dat we r definitly getting married. I love him n can’t imagine life widout him. I even have Ppl saying dat he duznt give a damn to u n I think they be lying bcuz I know v r meant to be together. Ever since we got engaged dere is one thing or the other hurting our relation

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Tell me a little more so I can advise you better. How old are you both? How long have you been dating? When did you get engaged? How long has it been since he stopped talking to you? What are the problems you’ve had, specifically?

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[Fairy princess]

Hi April!!
Thanks alot for the response. Well if u really wanna know the detail then it’s verry complicated. Ok so we both are in our twenties . In march 2010 his father set me up with him we both really liked eachothers company and we had the most magnificent chemistry it was like taking a ride on clouds so smooth and so swift. I belong to his home country and he really wanted to get married to a native frm his country so he thought I was perfect in every way. We fell in love and we both decided that we cannot live without each other. Apart from amazing understanding he found me verrrry pretty. As soon as we got it done official I just freaked out because it was so fast but I kept it to myself. On the other hand he became my world my life. I never showed dat I had a strange feeling but then he said it himself that even he feels it’s verry fast n he is so not preparedbut he loves me n we still had three months before the wedding. He thinks I’m everything he ever wanted n Dan da chapter of too fast n unprepared closed. Until my mum became a pain for us bcuz she dint want a pregnancy before I moved to his place. But then I got to know he had the same plans so I got chilled. But then one day he faked a voice of a woman as play to me. I freaked out n we had a play fight but after a few days he told me dat it was him faking it lol still things were kool n sexy wid us bcuz we love eachother n the only fact dat weakens me is dat I’m not wid him I love him so much I just wanna be wid him even if he is busy but I can’t imagine my days going on widout me thinking n missing him badly. I got so attached dat I kissed my pillow thinking it’s him lol well I dunno one day he felt dat he just can’t go on with me n he really wanted to think over his decision but then again love conquered his anger n once again we got back together ok here’s something important I missed out I find my own cousins n girlfriends drooling over him like he is some mr dreamguy although he is just kool I feel strange bcuz I want us to be respected v r no movie trash couple lol no hard feelings. One morning he was running late for work n I was insisting him to have a lil chat with mum but he denied. He had been doing it for a couple of days so I tricked him into talking to mum he got pissed off n dats it we lost touch we didn’t even had a chance to celeberate our first anniversary. He just says dat he is too busy even to drop in to say hi. Or gimme a kiss. I just love him so much n now my whole body is craving for his love. The only message I got recently was frm his dad that he still loves me n we should go on with the wedding n he is surely too fond n happy to have me but he is too busy n he feels dat he should wait until wedding for both of us to take off. As lovely as it feels to hear such good things I never get through his cell now it’s always on answering machine I wanted to wish him happybd but he never picked up da phone he had been ignoring me soo much dat I was really scared to send him such lovely gifts I had bought for him but I really wanted to send him bd gifts he had ignored as I was told. I dunno I just know dat it’s a lie I know deep down dat he reads every email I send him every MSG I mail him n all da good wishes. I just can’t live widout him n I apologised a thousand times but there is no response n I want to deny it all bcuz I can’t go through this shock of life I want him back I live him alot but I just wanna feel like a stalker. Deep down I know v r meant to be together n no one can take him away from me. April, I confess that I acted like a jerk at times but I did covered it up becuz someone tried to pull my leg for no reason n I was shocked!! Since den my life has been crazy. Do you think a girl will pull the other ones leg just for the sake of fun or she is trying to get my man?!? But thank god it wasn’t bad as I verry calmly handled the sich b cuz she is so close to family she will be at da wedding lol.
Everytime I talk to his dad he says dat he loves me n keep preparing.

Ps: gimme some tips to deal wid jerks who try to pull legs apart from staying away . Act innocent in crowd dis just blows away my temper and pls don’t think she is pretty bcu she is not she is just a pain believe me

April I really want to work things out just take it as a matter of life and death b cuz he is my world n we r too attached.

[Fairy princess]

Sure

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It doesn’t really sound like you have a question for me as much as you want to vent your sadness that the man you love is pulling away from you and has stopped talking to you. 🙁 I don’t think you should marry him if he isn’t talking to you. It’s not a good set up for a marriage!

You may love him, but he isn’t that interested in you. Put the wedding on hold and consider that this was a fast romance that wasn’t meant to be. I know you have feelings for him, but unless he has them for you — and acts on them, there’s not much you can do except accept the reality.

I hope that helps.

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[Fairy princess]

Thanx for de advice!! I guess ure right! He doesn’t love me….. Anymore….. And I have to deal with it

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sorry. I understand how painful rejection can be. But if you stop chasing someone who doesn’t want you — or even just waiting for someone who doesn’t want you — and put your focus on men who DO want you and who ARE available for the same kind of relationship you want, your life is going to be much happier in the long run.

I hope that helps.

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