[Anonymous]

I had a huge crush on my best friend, but he moved across the country and now we barely talk anymore. We had a connection that is extremely hard to forget. I feel like now there are no other guys out there for me except for him. I wish i could move on and find somone else, because my friends dont feel like enough. Im feeling very lost without him. What should i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s hard to get over the loss of a friend who’s moved away. The only way through these feelings is straight ahead! It’s okay to feel loss, and it’s okay to feel sad about your friend’s move. But you can’t let that keep you from living your life.

You have to find new friends either in the same places you’ve always found your friends, or by expanding your life into new arenas or switching things up, like changing your gym, your coffee shop or your dog walking route — whatever you have in your own life that you can change.

Be outgoing and open, and you’ll make new friends and move on with your life.

If you’re ready to look for a guy to date, then pick up my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that you can get by clicking on the Advice Books link above, and scrolling down. You can order the book online, and download it immediately, and start reading. The book will act as a friend to guide you from being single into being part of a couple. It’s a quick read, and if you want to start dating, this is a good place for you to start.

[optimistvik]

It will be always difficult to forget someone whom we like very much. try finding someone else but always keep in mind not to compare him with your friend.

[Anonymous]

I think its time for you to move on. i’m sure that he has, get over it!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let me know how things are going for you…. 😀

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