[Tara75]

Hi April,

I was wondering if there are more people (woman and/or man) which have experienced the same thing as I have.
My last 5 dates (in 1 year) all went/ended kind of the same.
With 2 guys, when we made love, they started to cry, about how incredibly it was.
The other guys started getting very emotinal /moist eyes after I made them come by hand. The got very emotional (blaming it on several things, contacs, allergy, … and one just admidded he was emotional) And after that they did not contact me again.
Except 1, he admitted that he felt so much, and was not ready for it.

Is this normal, I do of course, have started to create some logic in this all.
The thing I like to believe most in is: I gave them unconditional love, did not hold back.
They must have not felt this loved in a long time. And that made them scared as well.
Not quite ready for this part after their divorce. With the last 2 I could see it in their eyes, emotional, and not ready to be loved this much (again). which they found out during/after our dates. The date which they entered which much boltness and confidence.
With the first few guys I thought it was me, not understanding. But now I think I kind of helped them…… does this make any sense?

Many thanks in advance!
Tara

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Your experience seems unique. 😉

[Swera Khan]

I was really surprised to read your post, and Ask April was correct that it is truly unique.
When a person receives true love or unconditional attention from someone, their emotional barriers simply break down. These men were probably quite broken inside, and Tara’s warmth acted as a catalyst that brought all those suppressed emotions to the surface.

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