[Arabeth31]

Hello everyone. I think I just need to talk to someone. I married the love of my life in June. He is a wonderful man. I met him at work three years ago. He works the day shift, and I work the night shift. My problem is that I’m very lonely. He works all day and then goes hunting. He loves to hunt. He goes morning and night, and he never misses a day. I’m glad he has a hobby, but when I ask him to stay with me, he doesn’t. We never make love. I want a baby. He says, “maybe”. He doesn’t know. He is 41 and I’m 31. He is a sweet guy. I tell him how I feel, and he doesn’t understand. This is his first real relationship. He is used to being by himself. I don’t know what to do. All I want is to be able to spend more time with him. I love him so much. Any advice? Thanks for reading this 🙂

[AskApril Masini]

How long did you date before you married in June?

Has he always been like this? Or has his behavior changed, and if so, what caused the change?

Let me know, and I’ll give you my best advice. 🙂

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[Arabeth31]

We dated for two years before getting married. He changed. I knew he loved to hunt. I’m a little upset that he can’t take one day off for me. I seen more of him while we were dating hehe. We used to have an exciting sex life before we got married. I guess the old saying is true. Once you get married, the sex stops hehe.

[AskApril Masini]

So, it sounds like everything was fine until after you got married, and then the sex stopped — which isn’t the norm. 😉 I know people joke about it, but the reality is that most married people do have sex regularly — but the regularity sometimes changes. It’s not normal to get married and stop having sex. Sometimes couples who have children have trouble getting back into the bedroom because of physical, psychological, and social issues that result after childbirth, but since the two of you don’t have kids, this is a problem that is worth addressing and can be fixed pretty quickly if you’re willing to make some changes, yourself. 🙂

First of all, you have to give him something to want to stay home for. 😉 In other words, you have to be seductive and sexy. Familiarity is very common in marriages, and it combats excitement and seduction, so break the pattern and make things more exciting at home for him. There are lots of ways to do this. Personally, you can make sure you’re taking care of yourself by being in the mood, and setting the mood. Buy new lingerie, and make your home a place where it’s easy to have sex. Scented candles, a beautiful dinner, making him feel desired — these are all ways to get him more interested. I’ve written a book called [b]Romantic Date Ideas[/b] specifically for couples who want to put the X back in their sex lives. You might want to check it out here: [url]https://askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].

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