Four years ago I had a 9 month affir with a cop in my very small home towm.. He too is also married and was married at the tine of the affair. During the 9 months, I fell very hard for him, and he for I, but we both decided that it was best to stay with our spouses becasue we both have young childeren.. A few weeks later he called it quits and I was heart broken ! ! We live in a very small town and it seamed as EVERYONE knew about our relationship except our spouses… Someone finally told his wife and things got nasty, he accused me of telling her, but he knows in his heart that I would never of did that! He and I did not speak for a very long time but I kept up with him thru mutual friends and saw him all the time in passing.. But we found our way back to each other as friends,and then one thing lead to another and this past weekend we wound up sleeping together again… My love for him has not faded over the years, my feeling for him are just as strong now as they were 4 years ago ! ! What do I do ? I have asked him many of times if he loves he and he just says, “I care about you”, but I can see it written all over him ! ! HELP ! ! !
